Mine came back after 5 years. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. Trust issue or what i dont know. Most of time i have to think before making a friend with any other boy. All the time I have given them a real long rope and they have sadly tied it around their neck of their own accord. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. What do I do?? Even feelings of sheer happiness and an unbridled passion are felt immensely by Scorpions. It shows his deep love . I felt like it was out of nowhere. Please someone tell me what to do about my Scorpio guy best friend ! He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. He doesn't deserve it. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. Hasn't replies to a single email. I think Scorpios are very complex people. No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. Mostly because they're afrai Like the fall of a paper airplane or (more appropriately, since, ya know- Scorpio) an artillery shell. Just in more obvious and aggravating ways! There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. Is he testing me or just not interested all of a sudden? It seems his actions of disappearing whenever and to wherever have caused your self esteem to diminish. 10. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. violeta_oliveira@yahoo.com.br on December 28, 2016: Hey! Help he is turturing me with mind and body. The drop off in feelings are generally never as sudden as you think, unless there's a serious betrayal. They have to so that they don't feel guilty about retaliating. I always have a second thought about our relationship. He is an emotional guy so ignoring him would only get him angry. We never added each other on Facebook but only snapchat cause he likes snapchat a lot. Then he explained everything and I was fine. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. A Scorpio man typically keeps himself inundated with lots of things to do. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. The Scorpio Man likes having space. They are a little different . I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 years and a half. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. Most of time we have different opinion. My boyfriend is a scorpio and I'm libra. 9) He plays the blame game. The first SANAI 1 base under construction. There is nothing I don't love about this man. and I know for a fact his days are not that busy. This allows time for your Scorpio man to miss you. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it's one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. This month holds celestial . Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. Even i get scared of me. Of course the purpose of being happy as well as having fun is to let him notice. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. You might not see the arc, but it's there. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. You may notice the following behaviors in a Scorpio man when he is testing you: He Pulls the Disappearing Act He Asks for Help or a Favor He Becomes Quieter in Conversations He Asks a Lot of Personal Questions He Shares Intimate Details About His Life He Tests Your Reaction to Conflict He Asks About Your Past Relationships He Plays Hard to Get male scorps). Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. He will make an effort to spend time with you. The one I dealt with and still am uses coworkers to try to make me jealous but because I've seen him watching me and eavesdropping on me, I believe he's just looking for something on me. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. A few weeks ago we started talking again and admitted our feelings to each other. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! He left his job for something else and he hasn't been the same since . I'm very hurt and miss him so much! What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. Have some self respect and dump these crazy scorpio loser dudes who have self centered ness as their #1 ! We were getting on great and we were talking about getting married and out of nowhere he went cold turkey on me. When it's clear that your Scorpio man has gone from one hundred to zero, shift your focus. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. When they get into something, they really go for it. I hope this advice helps. Hopefully, now he can apologize, or at the very least stop ignoring you. When he's sad, he often feels deeply and intensely. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? Basically we only knew each other online and have made plans to be in a couple months. My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. He doesn't care about what you think. This article is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. I'm inlove with him and told him how I feel so he knows. On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. I can see good in people and, have little qualms of telling someone they are special, Doesnt always mean that romantic feelings are happening but love in what ever form, be it friendship, compassion or. The Scorpio man has a strong sense of self-esteem and is passionate about what he does. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. If a Scorpio man really cares about a person then it's really hard for them to forget that person, let alone disappear. We sporadically texted over the next week or so, but I gave up because I noticed I was the only one initiating conversation, and after he ignored a snapchat I sent him, that was the last straw. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. Well, the last thing I want is to be a stress to him. My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. Conversations with him will feel like the world doesn't exist for him at all. So, they can go on for a good while after things have cooled off quite a bit. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. Both of which he said no to. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. She may give you a clear sign right away that she likes you and you are the perfect man, and may not look directly at you when you are together. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. I fee like when we fight pieces of me die so when i feel to much its like i push a Button inside me that protects me from further hurt and i become cold and distant. Go figure. usually he will reply with yes, love. Said we must become friends b4 lovers. I rather move on and look for someone else right away, but he's totally worth it. Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. The Bug told me he is playing Music at some Bar so he invited me to come visit. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. He explained he didnt want to do that until we were "OPEN" in front of his daughter about our seriousness. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. Awesome! does he has no respect for me as a human being? The guy I like is a Scorpio. Hi all, i need an advice please about my scorpio man, we were fine for almost 2 months and then i had a strange feeling he was dating someone else. I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. He may not have found anything special in you that would make him stay. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. We don't know each other that well, so I don't know if he likes me just for my looks, or he actually takes interest in me. I have even called him out on his silence. Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. Would appreciate your advice. Our Love is real we know it from the Start. Sorry if sounds weird just guessing lol. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. She may stare across the room or look away when your eyes meet on your first date. Very strange behavior from a man in his 40's. Just because he doesn't tell you when you have hurt or upset him doesn't mean you haven't. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. They don't talk about feelings which leaves us to wonder what they think and where their at and if they are gone for good. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. I've been dating a scorpio man for 3 months. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. You can just imagine how much time that saves. Nothing. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. I don't know if he still likes me. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You? He needs his Space, alone Time ,escape into his Music after having Stress Times. I hope I helped!! He doesn't reach out and he doesn't reply when you contact him. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. so yeah.. is he playing. Lying, gaslighting, disappearing acts/avoiding for days on end, and emotionally irresponsible- denying fault or acting unaware of their actions- refusing to talk things out, is just not worth it. When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you #2: He refuses to hang out with you #3: He talks about sex frequently #4: He rarely opens up #5: He disappears out of the blue The Bottom Line Terms: When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. Then he blocked me! Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. Yes this one drives me Nuts, but i always know he is coming back around. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. I really need help tho, here is the problem. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. Pretending everything is fine will only make him feel worse. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. Because they know their emotions are so much stronger than others', they tolerate more than most people. He . I'm an aquarius, and i really don't like to be vulnerable and put myself out there. His withdrawal is to let you know he is upset and perhaps to punish you by ignoring your texts (manipulative, but it does happen). He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. Sometimes he gets his hopes up too high and disappoints himself. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. Scorpio Man's Personality and Your Relationship Being with a Scorpio man is as much about loving him as it is about loving yourself. few days later, he message me telling his phone broke, and his chat is jammed. we met online and been seeing each other for a month already. Understanding him 2. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. Do not Act Desperate and Clingy. He has difficulty maintaining relationships, and eventually, ghosting is the only recourse he can think of to keep the space needed for himself. I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. I would wait forever if he asked. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. Please help me and tell me he will come back to me. other from the real issue.ALWAYS. 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